I Got Ghosted! So I Made This Tarot Spread…

I recently had the bizarre experience of getting completely ghosted by a friend. One minute we were great buds and the next minute she was giving me the cold shoulder.

I have no idea why.

My first thought was what did I do wrong? Was it something I said? And then I backtracked and replayed our last interactions in my mind, looking for the pivotal moment when she must have thought yuck, I want nothing to do with Kate anymore!

At this point I realized I could drive myself crazy by guessing and speculating, so I decided to take a deep breath and create a new Tarot spread….because I know there are others out there like me who have been ghosted and thought WTF?

After trying out this spread, I felt calm, peaceful and ready to let this friendship go. It can be hard when someone disappears from your life and you don’t know why, so hopefully this spread will help you put it all in perspective and get clear on how you can feel better about this whole shit charade!

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14 Responses to I Got Ghosted! So I Made This Tarot Spread…

  1. Lisa Blanton says:

    Hi Kate, I was recently ghosted and this spread comes at the perfect time! I kept thinking it’s me, but realize now, it’s them! Something wrong with those ppl😁

  2. Sid says:

    It wasn’t me, Kate! I love ya!

    Tho’ I have been ghosted by one French biker before…

  3. Denise says:

    Great spread! Thank you, Kate! It gave me a little perspective on a friendship that has certainly changed!

  4. JUDY DAVIDSON says:

    Would like to try this “GHOSTING” spread. I was wondering…do I need Significators for ‘me’ position and for ‘Other Person’ position. Do ‘you’ use Signficators?

  5. celia says:

    This is AWESOME!!! Thank you Kate!

  6. Denise says:

    Thank you, Kate! I will try this in the morning! I feel I, too, have been β€˜ghosted’ by a dear friend! For the life of me, I don’t know what has occurred.
    I truly believe people come into our lives for a reason…..be it a moment or a lifetime. We don’t understand it, but when that purpose is done, the relationship ends…my only explanation. Though it makes us sad.

  7. Hi Kate I have been reading and learning about Tarot and my psychic self from a shaman exponent for about nine years, also with guidance from Biddy Eslemont and practicing with Biddy’s Free Tarot Readings as I live alone and do not have a large circle of fr4iends, and my own little family have all passed over.
    Your ‘ghost’ problem has answered a request asking almost what you are having at the moment. I did not know what to tell her, but read the cards for her, but she did not like the answer. Thank you for your ‘ghost’ lay out, that means a lot to me, as I know how to answer this question in future. BTW Biddy has now taken me from ( a learner, Aspiring, and now through experienced) and I will in the very near future starting my own web site for readings etc, as I am a medium and also do channeling. Dont think I am in opposition as I am in Australia, but I sometimes do get stuck. I love reading your pages. Blessed Be Freda Grossman

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